Tony Cinelli was a truly kindhearted man — a loving husband, father, son, brother, uncle, family member and friend.

His giant smile at social gatherings created a vibrant energy. He was as welcoming to strangers as he was to our family and friends. A humble charm, quick wit, and jokester personality captured everyone’s attention. Always patient and empathetic; he took the time to be with anyone who needed companionship.

Tony attended various post-secondary schools where he gained a variety of skills that took him from the business world, to land surveying, and eventually into the trades as an electrician.

Tony was living a mostly happy and healthy life, until 2012 when we lost him to his final battle with anxiety and depression. At the age of 43, he had been challenged by a few debilitating periods, suffering through them mostly in private. Unfortunately, this was a time where the stigma around mental illness was more prevalent, for men in particular, and there were fewer resources. His sudden loss created a deep hole in our family and we will forever miss him.

We hope that by sharing Tony’s story, other men who are struggling will feel less alone, and that the conversation around mental illness continues so we can do better as a community.

All those who knew Tony were truly gifted to have had him in their lives, and now we hope his life touches you as you think about donating to this valuable cause.

We thank you for whatever it is you are able to do to contribute.

Much love and peace to you all.

In honour of Tony’s life, gifts now support the Men’s Health Research Program at UBC. Your contributions help advance vital work focused on understanding and improving the health and well-being of men and families. Thank you for making a difference in Tony’s memory.